“When it’s gone, you’ll know what a gift love was. You’ll suffer like this. So go back and fight to keep it.” (Ian McEwan, Enduring Love) Does Ian McEwan present love as a positive or a negative emotion in his novels?
Ian McEwan’s collective works explore the very depths of human emotion and experience, occasionally stretching in to the bizarre and contentious realms of the psyche, and exposing hidden desires that popular culture would condemn the protagonists for having. McEwan’s original and sometimes controversial writing style and selection of subject matter have determined his place among the most recognisable authors of the twentieth and twenty-first centuries, yet it is his ability to capture the rawest and unblemished aspects of human relationships that establishes his being one of the greatest authors of his generation. Throughout his career, McEwan has written on politics, cultural difference, family relationships, sexual awakening and historical events, imbibing some of these issues with a gothic inflection which earned him the nickname of ‘Ian Macabre’ in his early career; yet for all his diversity, there is a central theme running throughout all of his novels, that of love. McEwan examines love in unflinching detail, exposing its romantic and fantastical influence as well as documenting its destructive power over protagonists in his narratives. For McEwan, love may heal and destroy, comfort and enrage, and so demonstrates human emotion at its purest heights of passion. In order to gain a comprehensive overview of McEwan’s varied presentations of love, his novels Atonement,[1] The Cement Garden[2] and On Chesil Beach[3] will be examined for their individual representation of love and its effects on the narratives’ protagonists.
Atonement, a historical novel of lies, passion and irrepressible romance demonstrates the destructive and equally preserving power of love between a family and young couple, torn apart by the imagination of a thirteen year old girl. McEwan’s style is at its best throughout the narrative as the reader is drawn in to the harrowing tale of Robbie and Cecilia’s love for each other, set against a backdrop of World War Two death and destruction. The fact that the narrative has been written by Briony consequently alters the tale’s effect, and forces the reader to judge whether her account is accurate. Furthermore, the emotion Briony relays to reader is only her interpretation of what she believes Robbie and Cecilia to be experiencing, and so the novel becomes an account of Briony’s impression of love while her sister and Robbie essentially become her protagonists.
Atonement is not necessarily a romantic novel, as defining it as such would detract from its other issues, but the possibility of a romantic narrative is snatched away as Cecilia and Robbie are prevented from being reunited. The novel’s unconventional ending highlights Briony’s authority as the narrator, suspending her readers’ sense of disbelief as the concluding paragraphs alter the reception of the novel and allow the reader to reflect on the power of love. Briony’s decision to divulge that Robbie and Cecilia both died before they could rekindle their relationship demonstrates that she finally understands the significance of love, and therefore refuses to falsify his and her sister’s relationship in the name of fantastical literature.
Briony seeks to demonstrate that she appreciates the significance of love with the quotation, ‘Finally he spoke three words that no amount of bad art or faith can ever quite cheapen’,[4] and it is her love for Cecilia and Robbie’s relationship that allows her to recognise her sin and atone for it by writing the novel. She does not marry nor have children, which can be argued is a penance for her sin, or perhaps a knowledge that she does not deserve to fall in love. Robbie and Cecilia’s love is the only example that Briony sees, yet she is to experience a different kind of love when she meets Luc, compassion. It is this encounter with the French soldier that awakens Briony to the full gravity of her behaviour, and when he asks her deliriously if she loves him she replies ‘”Yes” […] for that moment, she did’.[5] After Luc dies Briony resolves to go to Balham to confront Cecilia and Robbie, and it is this fictional meeting which provides the contemporary twist to a novel that has all the elements of classic romance.
Briony’s conception of love is inaccurate at the beginning of the novel, as her childish imagination leads her to construct her own ideas of romance and passion, consumed by fairy-tales and her own writings. Yet she believes she is an authority on relationships, as her play, The Trials of Arabella, was written to teach her older brother Leon the value of romantic love; she preaches to those who have a far greater understanding of love than she does. The older Briony recognises her teenage naivety and writes of her play, ‘She was Arabella’,[6] illustrating her juvenile belief that love belongs to the same world as fairies, knights and princesses. Somewhat of an outcast in her own family, Briony only feels strongly about mundane things, such as ‘Her passion for tidiness’[7] and ‘A love of order’,[8] so when faced with a loving relationship she behaves erratically, her naivety fuelling her decisions. Her leaping in to the river to see if Robbie would save her and her misinterpretation of the scenes by the fountain, and in the library, perpetuates her fantastical theories of love.
The concept that love can be dangerous may be explored with Briony’s fervent protestations that she saw Robbie attack Lola by the lake. She did not see him, but her excitable brain is charged with memories of the scene in the library; it may be argued that she is in fact jealous of her sister’s relationship with Robbie, and it is this which prompts her to incriminate him. Briony, writing as Robbie, confirms her own emotions at discovering him and Cecilia, explaining, ‘[…] she had […] been disgusted, and in her obscure way felt betrayed’.[9] McEwan addresses the difference between love and lust in Atonement, considering the letter which causes all manner of turmoil for Robbie and the Tallises; if Robbie had picked up the correct one Briony would have had no inkling of his sexual attraction to Cecilia, and would therefore not view him as a sex maniac. This part of the narrative reinforces McEwan’s championing of deep love in his novels as opposed to superficial lust.
The notion that love in a romantic sense is a product of twelfth-century French poetry reinforces the reason why Briony idealises it in her writings; instead of consigning it to fantasy she fetishises chivalry and romance, viewing anything else as immoral, hence her gloating after disturbing Cecilia and Robbie in the library, ‘”[…] I’ve done nothing wrong”’.[10] As an adolescent, Briony puts the idea of love on a pedestal and does not connect sexuality with romance. Her gradual sexual maturity is demonstrated with the quotation ‘[…] made love to Cecilia – no […] they had fucked while others sipped their cocktails on the terrace’,[11] demonstrating Briony’s changing attitudes to love in the novel as she removes romanticism of the moment and brings it back to realism.
Briony writes that Robbie believes in the redeeming power of love with the simple quotation, ‘His business was simple. Find Cecilia and love her, marry her and live without shame’,[12] and his pseudo-religious touching of his breast pocket containing her letters indicates that it is their love which literally keeps him alive. Briony moves throughout the novel from an imaginative teenager who idealises a fantastical impression of love, to an older woman who has a clear and accurate conception of it, epitomised with the quotation ‘That he could be cleared had all the simplicity of love’.[13] When Briony discovers them in the library, Robbie experiences ‘[…] a feeling as pure as love, but dispassionate and cruelly irrational’;[14] love is recognised in Atonement as a positive emotion but equally as powerful as hate. Love for Briony becomes the strongest of human emotions, beginning as a fanciful impression brought about by reading too many fairy-tales, and ending as a means to perpetuate the lives of two people whom she loved dearly and longs to immortalise in happiness.
Ian McEwan says of the permanency of love in Atonement, “[…] these two lovers will survive to love […] They will always live”,[15] and the reader is left to decide whether delusion or reality is more palatable as the novel ends. Atonement communicates the strength of love as an adoring, comforting emotion while also demonstrating its danger if those who do not understand it pretend to do so. The positive effect of love in the novel comes to fruition gradually, as Briony begins to understand and appreciate its strength outside of fantasy. McEwan’s The Cement Garden will now be examined for its example of familial love, and the consequences a deficiency of parental affection brings about.
The settings in The Cement Garden establish the sense of unease and lack of familial stability in McEwan’s narrative, as the children do not respect their father and the eldest son, Jack, seeks to subvert his authority at every opportunity. The novel is a tale of juvenile anarchy as both of the children’s parents die and they are left to their own devices, but there is the distinct impression that their relationships with each other are not conventional. The lack of parental authority in the house leads the children to construct their own microcosmic culture to which the laws of greater society do not apply. Jack and Julie’s ultimate descent in to incest provides a disturbing interpretation of love in McEwan’s narrative, as the two eldest children apply to each other the titles of Mother and Father in their distorted little existence. Dominic Head supports this concept, writing, ‘[…] they must reconstruct the bedrock of family security […] by becoming ‘mummy’ and ‘daddy’’,[16] in order to preserve some kind of familial stability.
The most unsettling part of The Cement Garden is the distinct apathy Jack feels towards his mother and father; it is not merely a conventional teenage male rebellion against his elders, but a complete disregard for the family unit they represent. McEwan employs his methodical writing style present in all his novels with Jack’s recounting his father’s death. He states, ‘I am only including the little story of his death to explain how my sisters and I came to have such a large quantity of cement at our disposal’;[17] in the grand scheme of things his father’s death ‘[…] seemed insignificant’,[18] and his first action after his father’s death is to smooth away his imprint in the wet cement. McEwan’s recurring theme of the absent father in his narratives is felt most keenly in The Cement Garden, as it is this lack of ‘alpha-male’ control that leads Jack to pursue his darker desires concerning his sister. In addition to this, the notion of repressed masculinity is detailed in the narrative, as although the father has some influence over his children, he is viewed as a somewhat comical character, ‘[…] self-important and foolish’[19] when he tries to assert himself over his wife. Jack is emotionally numb towards his parents, in particular his mother, whom he views as irritating and meddlesome; it is only Julie who excites emotion in him, and it is this sensation that is freed with the death of their mother. Jack reflects, ‘When Mother died, beneath my strongest feelings was a sense of adventure and freedom’,[20] which suggests that the disintegration of what familial love there was removes all discipline from the house, and in Jack and Julie’s case enables them to unlock their desires.
Eyal Amiran suggests of the children’s situation, ‘Jack and Julie develop an incestuous relationship which refigures the sexuality of Eden, while Julie is being courted by Derek, a pool-playing, sports-car driving, cigarette-smoking, hissing Satan’,[21] suggesting that Jack and Julie’s relationship is innocent and that Derek is the true demon of the narrative. This argument is difficult to agree with, as the children are aware that what they are doing is innately sexual, and while Derek is not exactly an angelic figure, he recognises Jack and Julie’s actions as inherently wrong. Head contributes a more plausible argument to Jack and Julie’s behaviour, proposing, ‘In ‘normal’ family life the path to sexual maturity involves moving away from the family and […] discarding the parents […]’,[22] but, ‘In The Cement Garden the family unit dissolves at precisely the point where Jack and Julie are discovering their emergent sexuality’.[23] Head therefore argues that Jack and Julie turn to each other to exercise their sexual curiosity, which is more credible than suggesting they are innocent in their actions.
Jack and Julie’s relationship becomes further sexualised when they assume the role of Mother and Father to younger siblings Sue and Tom, and it may therefore be argued that their love for each other has a positive effect on them, until they are able to realise its sexual elements. When their parents were alive, Jack and Julie’s relationship was mischievous and their behaviour was playful, but when they have to assume the authoritative roles in the household their innocence gives way to jealousy, suspicion and covetousness. Dominic Head argues that ‘[…] the eventual incest between Julie and Jack […] is the culmination of the book’s Oedipal theme’,[24] proposing that with the disintegration of familial love, the narrative becomes about sexual power, as Jack subconsciously seeks to subvert his father’s place as head of the household, and his incestuous feelings towards Julie are intensified when she takes on the Mother role.
Ian McEwan comments that he is “interested in relationships (for) […] how they absorb pressure, influence politics and, again, history”,[25] and this is certainly apparent in The Cement Garden, as Jack and Julie’s relationship absorbs the pressure of having to run their household. It therefore may be argued that it is the anxiety of social conformity, felt keenly by their geographical alienation from greater society, that induces them to succumb to the love they feel for each other, and in so doing be able to bear their isolation. In this sense, the love in this novel is positive, as it provides Jack and Julie with the strength to endure their situation. McEwan also illustrates in this narrative the dangers of passion; just as Robbie and Cecilia’s outburst of love proved their undoing in Atonement, Jack and Julie’s yielding to their incestuous inclinations brings about the end of the family unit they struggled to sustain. The final novel to be observed is On Chesil Beach, which also demonstrates the adverse effects of passion, as well as the delicate balance between love and lust.
The beginning sentence of On Chesil Beach captures the apprehensive mood of the wedding night, beginning, ‘They were young, educated, and both virgins […] and they lived in a time when a conversation about sexual difficulties was plainly impossible’,[26] communicating the intense awkwardness, embarrassment and expectation felt by Florence and Edward as they embark on their first night as husband and wife. There is a sense of juvenile, innocent love about the couple as they sit quietly, eating their pitiful meal, all the while conscious of what one expects of the other. Their relationship is not unlike Cecilia and Robbie’s, the former being a virgin before their encounter in the library, and both their and Florence and Edward’s interaction is equally disastrous, as Tim Adams comments, ‘McEwan is word-perfect at handling the awkward comedy of this relationship and, as ever, turning it into something far more disturbing’.[27]
The historical context of the novel demonstrates the obstacles that mar Edward and Florence’s relationship, as Florence struggles to straddle the two poles of femininity and Edward is terrified of ‘arriving too soon’. Colm Tóibín writes that ‘[…] Florence’s frigidity is partly a function of her class and is shared by her parents’,[28] proposing the greatest hindrance to their relationship is the taboo of sex; Florence cannot get past these upper-class implications and is permanently haunted by the bride’s manual, with its ‘[…] garish red covers’[29] and talk of mucus and glands. McEwan suggests that Florence’s relationship with her father may have contributed to her terror of sex, evoking the disturbing impact of deficient familial love, as in the previous texts. In The Cement Garden the father dies, Mr Tallis in Atonement is permanently absent and having an affair, and the hint at an incestuous assault on Florence in On Chesil Beach demonstrates the potentially disastrous effect of distorted familial love.
Florence and Edward’s naivety of sex and innocent relationship lead them to attach a stigma to love, so they enter their relationship, like Atonement’s Briony, with an inaccurate impression of a loving relationship. Florence is expected to seduce her husband and be the dutiful wife, and her nervousness communicates the same innocence that Briony feels, hence the reason both young women construct an idealised image of love. As a consequence, Florence is incapable of connecting love to sexuality, and Edward cannot disconnect them; he reflects after the incident, ‘Love and patience […] would surely have seen them through’,[30] which proposes the argument that for him and Florence, love, regardless of its strength, was not enough to save them. Florence and Edward’s relationship is either comical or fearful, and it is their inability to find a common ground that leads to their undoing. The quotation, ‘For the first time, her (Florence’s) love for Edward was associated with a definable physical sensation’,[31] demonstrates McEwan’s ability to tempt the reader with a happy ending and then snatch it away, as in Atonement also. Florence and Edward’s love for each other begins as a positive emotion, until they attempt to express it physically; as soon as Edward loses control, their love is tainted, the innocence lost to a pang of lust. Adams recognises this disaster as consistent with McEwan’s style, writing ‘(his) subject has often been the way in which innocence goes bad’.[32]
The lack of familial love in On Chesil Beach makes for a mundane household, as the children in The Cement Garden are permanently bored, and Cecilia longs to leave home in Atonement and begin her life away from the Tallis estate. Likewise, Florence feels stifled in her family home, and so love for the protagonists in all three narratives becomes an escape. Jack and Julie turn to incest to overlook their situation, there is certainly a Lady Chatterley-esque[33] inflection to Cecilia’s attraction to Robbie, and Florence feels Edward saves her from the monotony of family life. David Malcolm maintains that McEwan argues for the ‘[…] redeeming power of love’,[34] and also ‘[…] suggests love’s fragility’,[35] reinforcing the argument that Robbie feels he will be saved by Cecilia’s love, and the ease with which Florence and Edward’s relationship was tainted by an unfortunate event. Edward understands Florence’s desperate need for his affection afterwards, reflecting, ‘All she had needed was the certainty of his love, and his reassurance’,[36] similar to Robbie’s desire for Cecilia’s love; with this reflection, Edward is finally able to view sexuality and love as separate emotions. However, in typical McEwan style, he realises this too late.
In conclusion, McEwan presents love as a positive emotion in these three narratives, as a means of escape and comfort, but also demonstrates its inherent frailty; it may be made negative by lust, cruel words, jealousy and crippling pride. Frances Ferguson writes ‘What McEwan means when he speaks of the impulse to love […] is (that) Love […] is timeless’,[37] and it is love’s timelessness that demonstrates its power as a literary tool, as well as a “gift”[38]of human relationships. Regardless of culture or social norms, McEwan’s protagonists have the choice of clinging to love to sustain their relationships, or falling foul of lesser human emotions and losing what could have saved them.
[1] McEwan, Ian, Atonement, IL, Vintage, 2007
[2] McEwan, Ian, The Cement Garden, NY, Picador, 1980
[3] McEwan, Ian, On Chesil Beach, IL, Vintage, 2008
[4] McEwan, Ian, Atonement, IL, Vintage, 2007, p.137
[5] ibid., p.309
[6] ibid., p.13
[7] ibid., p.7
[8] ibid., p.7
[9] ibid., p.139
[10] ibid., p.129
[11] ibid., p.227
[12] ibid., p.228
[13] ibid., p.226
[14] ibid., 139
[15] Silverblatt, Michael, Ian McEwan, Interview with Michael Silverblatt, Bookworm, KCRW, California, Santa Monica, 2002 (page numbers not specified)
[16] Head, Dominic, Ian McEwan, Manchester, Manchester University Press, 2007, p.48
[17] McEwan, Ian, The Cement Garden, NY, Picador, 1980, p.9
[18] ibid., p.9
[19] ibid., p.10
[20] ibid., p.64
[21] Amiran, Eyal, Against Narrative Poetics: Postmodern Narrative Returns, SubStance, Vol. 25, No. 3, Issue 81, 25th Anniversary Issue, Wisconsin, University of Wisconsin Press, 1996, p.99
[22]Head, Dominic, Ian McEwan, Manchester, Manchester University Press, 2007, p.48
[23] ibid., p.48
[24] ibid., p.48
[25] Hunt, Adam, Ian McEwan interview with Adam Hunt, B&A: New Fiction, 21, 1996, p.47-50, p.48
[26] McEwan, Ian, On Chesil Beach, IL, Vintage, 2008, p.3
[27] Adams, Tim, The Observer, Sunday 25 March 2007, page numbers not specified
[28] Tóibín, Colm, Dissecting the Body, Vol. 29 No. 8, 26 April 2007, pp. 28-29
[29] opcit., page numbers not specified
[30] McEwan, Ian, On Chesil Beach, IL, Vintage, 2008, p.166
[31] ibid., p.87
[32] Adams, Tim, The Observer, Sunday 25 March 2007, page numbers not
[33] Lawrence, D H. Lady Chatterley’s Lover, re-print, London, Penguin Classics, 1994
[34] Malcolm, David, Understanding Ian McEwan, SC, University of South Carolina Press, 2002, p.156
[35] ibid., p.156
[36] McEwan, Ian, On Chesil Beach, IL, Vintage, 2008, p.166
[37] Frances Ferguson, The Way We Love Now: Ian McEwan, Saturday, and Personal Affection in the Information Age, Representations, Vol. 100, No. 1, 2007, p.42–52, p.42
[38] referring back to the question’s quotation









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